I can not think of this argument, since it presents itself to me under the eyes constantly in a thousand different facets. I'm talking about a couple who are together for 20 years, who has always loved, understood, supported at all times and is today accused all that time spent together, calling it a "waste." Well but then, I married that I have yet to hear about what I learned from an example like this? What to do if I get married after 20 years I regret all that time of marriage? All this makes sense? I think not! How come I see so many mothers of my peers who prefer to dance rather than being at home with her husband? And how is it that my mother has changed from a nearly perfect housewife in modern super woman ever found out with old friends? What is triggered in the brain of those who married after a certain age? That 's what I want to understand now. I view this change I have made slide under his nose, like an idiot. Moreover, I would not have much power in this area and almost certainly would not be able to stop that desire to "return to origin", which stood in my mother. The situation was reversed leaving incredulos. I have been waiting my mother back home now: the first was that she was waiting for me in suspense. It was I who was looking for t-shirt or jeans that was in vogue, not her. It was me who organize outputs with friends. It was me that I acted from a young person who they are. But it seems that automatically when the first lady of the house abdicates its functions, the latter should take his role, his duties and responsibilities, otherwise everything goes to hell.
But I am not you dear mother. Not that I can be cooking and go to bed early to go shopping the next morning, I'm the one who has to go to dance, otherwise I will like you and at your age regret everything that I could not do in 20 years . I do not want a future so sad before. I want to enjoy every bit of life that I will have to hope so underrated in the bond called marriage, believing that a relationship as that of my beloved grandparents may have again and live happily with the man I love for a lifetime.
Today I see many people who marry as a hobby, because marriage is good for this or that age and if you go too far then it is bad ... or else because the children got too late and then does not go well, then by let's get married on ... No! This is not the end. If you think so then you make a single life that we do more than look good. Marriage is not a requirement for anyone, there is imposed. If you are aware that the marriage will stand Stratta, in 20 years will be all ugly and withered because there will be no passion in the first two years, then live with, Stay on your own, or at least not put us a half children who have nothing to do and which do not have to suffer the consequences of your insecurities. Perhaps the company is
canning our brains. Makes them fry well well together with the idea of \u200b\u200ba fairytale, and we place them in the skull. So we still want to constantly "And they all lived happily ever after." In the more we cultivate the idea that the woman must marry before 27 or else is an old maid if not seize any more. And now there's a huge loss ... I see in so many married with the first passing so as not to exceed the age of zitellume. And I see many others who look sdolcinatamente marriages of her friends, gets excited thinking about how will be their new life and eventually, for a little ego and a bit of curiosity, decided to face them too the plunge and do it just to pretend that this sort of engagement that began a couple of years ago, was enough to familiar with these.
No, this is not what I want. No matter whether in church or in town, but I want something honest. We love each other? We want to spend a lifetime together? I want you close to me all my life seriously? Well, Let's go to buy wedding rings and let's get married tomorrow. It does not matter do it big, I do not care of 250,000 guests and fireworks, there is enough love to give to ourselves and our future children, if you ever decide to have it.
I want a life ... reckless, yes. But until the time comes and as long as I'll age. If you decide to make a commitment as serious as a result will become serious. Why a marriage can not be a fad. Do not get married to make a change to a boring life or why they do it all. We marry for love. Someone has not yet understood. From my mother.
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